Monthly Archives: December 2010

Christmas at the Robinson Home Sweet Home

Since we spent our actual Christmas Day visiting my family, we celebrated our family Christmas before we left.

This year we are trying out a few new traditions.

Like having Jesus’ birthday cake for breakfast.

And spending very little money on each other.

Our Christmas tree with our little gifts to each other.

 

And being the most creative we can with the little we do spend.

 

A huge set of play tools and a tool bench we bought from a yard sale last summer for $8.00.

And mostly spending time with each other, laughing with our hilarious son.

Did you ‘start’ any new traditions this year?

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I’m Dreaming of a White Christmas…

We spent Christmas with my side of the family this year in my home town.  Oh how I miss this place!

Guess what we woke up to Christmas Eve?

SNOW!!!!

Being a southern now, and all…we don’t see snow ’round these parts (although Huntsvegas had quiet a snow fall on Christmas too!) So it was fun to have some snow up north on our Christmas vacation.

See how much fun we had?

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Merry Christmas!

Hoping you are enjoying your friends and family as we celebrate the Saviors birth today!
Merry Christmas!

All our love,

The Robinson’s

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Another Trip to Cook-vegas

Every year we have wanted to be in town for graduation at TTU.  But alas, every year we are not for one reason or another.  Go figure that this year, now that we no longer live in town, we had nothing going on that weekend…so you know what we did?  We visited!  And had a blast.  Oh how I wish I could attend every graduation of our friends and get pictures like this:


It was such a fun weekend!  We are so thankful we were able to be there.

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Walkin’ in a Winter Wonder Land

Here in downtown Huntsvegas, every year there is a outdoor event called Santas Village.  We decided to take Little Man there this year and he had a BALL!  Take a look:

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Little Man being a baby at Christmas


Little Man’s First Christmas…was he really ever this little????

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Potty Training: What I want to remember about what worked for us

We are at week four of  potty training!  Little Man is completely trained…dare I say that?

I mean, he tells me when he needs to go, goes both #1 and #2 in the potty, and can go on outings and stay dry and or use the potty out, as well as go through nap and night-time completely dry…scarily and completely surprisingly to say, I believe our Little Man is officially Potty Trained!

No glory to us as parents or to our son as a ‘good boy’, honestly and truly, it was and is all by the grace, mercy, and generosity of God.

Which brings us to my desire to record a top list of things that worked for us in a place that I know will not get lost…which happens to be our blog.  So if you don’t have children and this bores you, skip it.  If you do have children and you think I have no idea what I am talking about, you are right and you could skip it too.  If you want to have a good laugh, read on.

Top 13 List: What worked for us- Potty Training Little Man

1. Buy a little potty: We bought Little Man a potty around 18 months when he started showing signs that he knew when he was going in his diaper.  We bought this ‘froggy potty’.  It works great for little boys, which we found out after 1st purchasing a different one not all ‘boy’ potty’s actually do work well for actual little boys.

2. Start a small habit of sitting on the potty once a day when you think they might go.  For Little Man this was always at night before bath time.

3. Talk about the potty. Talk about what is happening as he is using it and whats expected.

4. Praise! When he did actually go in the potty we went crazy in excitement, helping him to know it was a good, big deal when he did go.

5. Pray.  No joke, I prayed about this a TON.  Prayed that God would help me to know when to try, that God would prepare Little Man to be ready and for him to be able to communicate enough to understand my expectations and be able to communicate back his thoughts/apprehensions.  Also we would pray with Little Man about this together, like at night before he went to bed, that God would prepare Mommy and Daddy and Little Man for this transition, etc.

6. Talk.  As the time got closer, I began talking to him about the potty during most diaper changes, about how soon we would “Get to!” go potty in the big potty and how we would be all done with diapers.

7.  Observe. I tried to observe when Little Man would use his diaper, especially #2.  Then I could know about when he would potentially go and could talk to him and prep him for it.

8. Plan ahead to be all in!  I wanted to be completely available for at least a week when I attempted potty training for the 1st time because a) I didn’t and still don’t have any idea what I am doing and 2) I knew that it wouldn’t happen in a day.  So I wanted to have at least a week with no separations or out of home environment outings so I could continue on with potty training for several days straight.  That is why I crazily chose the week of  Thanksgiving because there were no distractions or outings other than time at his grandparents home where I could still keep a constant eye on him.

9. Be ready.  I wanted to start first thing in the morning as soon as he woke up and go straight from there.  This meant having his potty upstairs in the bathroom ready, having all materials ready, wipes, underwear washed and ready to be worn (we went straight to underpants), any encouraging stuff, like a sticker chart or a basket of special books to read, etc.

10. Use what works.  For some reason Little Man would get so frustrated if I told him that we needed to go use the potty.  But I got the idea to set a timer to go off every 30 min. and told him that when the timer went off it was telling him to try to go potty.  It worked like a charm. When it would go off I would gasp excitedly and smile and ask him what it was saying and he would shout, “It’s time to go POTTY!”.  Whatever works…

11. Change it up if need be.  I quickly realized that some sort of reward system would potentially work well with our little guy but I didn’t want it to be food related since I knew it could too easily become a long stretching habit (like a cookie every time you potty could add up to 10 cookies a day very rapidly once he caught on).  So I made up a sticker chart during his nap time with his name and a bunch of little boxes.  Every time he went potty he got to choose a sticker and put it in a box.  He LOVED this!

BUT. After holding in his #2 for two days, I realized we might need some extra incentive in this area.  I told him that if he went #2 in his potty he could have a whole brownie and then he suggested a sucker instead.  So guess what he got the next morning after his first #2 in his potty?  A sucker.  For 5 days we did the sucker reward for #2.  Then I went to a little extra dessert instead of a sucker.  Tonight he just got a bite of brownie after a #2 and he was excited about it.  Our poor child was literally bouncing off the walls and rolling on the floor just 45 min after having his sucker so we needed to move away from this reward quickly.  🙂  See the below video for reference:

12.  Stick with it.  At the end of the first day I was so flippin’ tired.  Between exuberant joy, constant attention and cleaning up messes, potty training a toddler can be exhausting!  But I stuck with it, and day 2 was very similar to day one.  I was tempted to give in.  But I didn’t.  And you know what?  Day 3 was his first day he stayed dry all day and he’s been dry every day since then (with literally only 2 separate  mini accidents).  For any of our future little ones I realize this could take 1 day or 10 days, but I really believe that consistency was key for our Little Man.

13. Mostly, have fun.  This was such a sweet time for Little Man and I.  I told Hubby that it was so great for our  Mommy, son relationship.  I got SO many opportunities to encourage him, praise him, and tell him how thankful for him I am.  We got to spend whole days just reading together, talking, painting, drawing, and playing while we waited for ‘mother nature’ to do her thing.  I got to model grace during the many failed attempts and got to instruct with patience and love as to how to help it to go well the next time.  I really feel like we have benefited from this whole experience!

And I think that is it.  Whew…what a whirl wind that first week was.

What an unexplainable joy it is to have children!

Who would have known that potty training toddlers could be an opportunity to praise God for His goodness?

Some words of preparation for any Mommy’s who may choose to do the ‘boot-camp’  or ‘cold turkey’ style potty training (basically diapers straight to underpants) , and for me when I need to potty train any future children:

Be prepared by having a plan.

Be willing to hold that plan loosely.

Plan to be exhausted.

Plan to be patient.

Plan to have failures.

Plan for messes to be made.

Plan to spend lots of sweet uninterrupted time with my toddler, for future children this may even entail hiring a sitter for a few days…who knows!

Oh the joys of toddlerhood  🙂

Are any of you potty training?  If you have older children, what are your top tips or words of encouragement to parents who are in the midst of or are preparing to potty train?  I am ALL ears!

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